You may have asked yourself this before? I know I have many times. It wasn't until I studied other women and the nature of "certain" men that I began to understand why some women attract and keep high quality and high-value men and why others can't.
What kind of women attract educated, wealthy, good mannered, masculine men?
Why do you think high value men go after a certain woman?
Looks play a big part. We all know but these women with all the "luck" (aka more life skills) get these men because they possess the traits/skills these men want and let it be known they have these skills.
How many of you dream of a certain type of man? Now how many went out looking for information on what said type of man is interested in, what kind of environment he is in, what he finds attractive, etc? You have no chance with this type of man unless you understand him.
What man wants a woman he can't hold a conversation with? Or can't introduce at a dinner party? Or knows nothing of his interests?
You need to educate yourself, train yourself, study the habits, hobbies and pleasures/interests if the man you are trying to attract and appeal to him.
Invest in growing yourself. A quality man can see the lackluster energy of a woman who's faking it. He wants someone who is on his level in some way, whether it's intellectually, physically, financially or emotionally or a combination of these.
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Here are some tips.........
-study what kind of neighborhoods your ideal type lives in and move into such neighborhood.
-study what kind of hobbies he participates in and participate in such activities (future blog post)
-find out what kind of education he has/is working on and acquire the same or similar degree or education (future blog post)
-determine what kind of career he has and get your foot into that door (future blog post)
-discover what personality traits he possesses and determine whether yours will match (very important)
--live a similar lifestyle
There are some things that men are better at and that they will appreciate if you are good at, too. A few of these things are being smarter with money (quality men are savers, not spenders but are good at both), trying new approaches to problems, not making excuses (a quality man is a man of his word and very crafty). You should also learn how to walk away from situations or people that devalue you.
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A high-value man doesn't want a woman with a "history". Be careful of who you date, befriend, work for, etc. A trashy past will compromise your future. Think of a CEO or a prince, would they not conduct a background check on the woman they want to marry? Yes, they will because why would they risk what they've worked hard for if it can be so easily taken away by a gold digger, scam artist, liar, ex-stripper/prostitute or any other woman that has engaged in risky behavior and can ruin his reputation?
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